Groups: Anyone else been gone for awhile from Y!A and notice the changes?

Ha ha, are you targeting this question at me because of what I said to that Mike character? The only reason I made that comment to him was because he does that all the time on any question asked about black men and black women, he's right there saying the same crap I don't know about you, but being a black woman myself it gets pretty old hearing it. Of course I'm going to want to talk out on that and I am not "ghetto" dear. You do realize a ghetto is actually a place, not a behavior.